If my husband has waited more than a year for this woman, does he have feelings for her?!?

sometimes guys just want a connection. it's not that they "have feelings for them" in the way you mean, it just means they get a good feeling by chasing this person, and that they enjoy playing this game. in my experience, if he actually got in a serious relationship with her, he would feel the need to play this game with someone else. it's not about her, its all about the game.